Families

I think all families are different. I think there's always a bit of dysfunction in each family though. Some families have little problems, can keep up with the bills, and take care of their family perfectly, but there's families out there that live paycheck-to-paycheck, and have a stressful family. Each family is different on how they function, but when you make things work out of what you got and enjoy it, then I think it's a functional family.

In in the Glass Castle, I think they're family is functional so far. They're not the perfect family, living the good life, but they make it work with what they have. They try to have fun with every opprotunity they get. They love eachother from what I can tell so far. They do have some problems with money, but they don't let that stop them. I think it's great that the dad is always teaching the kids something and have fun with them at the same time.

There's all types of different families out there today. More and more people get divorced and remarried, and sometimes there's kids involved. I don't think that should disrupt the family life though. When it's not the perfect family with the mom, dad, brother, and sister, I think it's just fine. I don't think you need that "perfect family" to have a true happy family.

I think when you can talk to a 3rd or 4th cousin or a great-aunt or uncle about anything, that it shows how close the family is. When you can get together with 20 people and know every single one of them and know exactly how you're related to them, and you've hung out with them, or you've done stuff together, then I think that's considered a good family. Although, some families don't have many people, so when you get together and you can talk about anything with eachother, and get along, that's also a good family. There's all kinds of different ways you can tell if a family is functional or dysfunctional, but I think every single family out there has some kind of dysfunctional stuff in it. I don't think there's one absolutely "perfect" family out there that hasn't had problems or has had a dysfunctional situation happen within their family.

Prepping for Prom

Late into winter, early spring is the time for prom. Before the day arrives, how long does it really take to get ready? How far back do the girls start buying dresses, flowers, and getting their dates? Prom is too much. I think it's a great time, but it's a bit much on some. Do you remember your prom? How long did it take until you or your date started to freak out about getting ready?

It is now February, and the majority of girls have their dresses, or they are ordered. Prom isn't until May. Along with prom is a lot of drama. Trying to find a date can be hard when you are in a small school, and you know everyone too well and you don't already have a boyfriend/girlfriend. There's a lot of talk that goes around about who's going with whom and what everyone thinks is always heard, even if it's not very nice. There's also a lot of tanning, whether it's spray on, the lotion, or the bed, there is always tanning starting from winter until the day before prom.

One of the biggest things is the dress. If you're a girl that's been to prom, or is going, you know that you want to start shopping soon, so there's no last minute dresses left for you. Most girls today, are buying their dresses online if they can not find one they like in stores. I don't blame them, because that's what I did. If there's not a lot of choices out there in stores near you, you're still going to want an amazing dress, but where to find one? It's a very nervous time when you buy something online that's expensive and not knowing if it'll fit you perfectly. Also knowing that there's sometimes no returns, and you're stuck with it is very scary. I haven't gotten my dress yet, but it'll be coming through UPS no later than two weeks from now.

I think the other bigger thing is finding a date. When people ask others to prom that they really like, they do it in very cute ways. The guy would write in the snow, write on their cars, use flowers to spell out "prom?". I think that's a big part on how you look at prom. If you don't get asked, then you start to get nervous, and try to find someone. Prom isn't as fun if you don't have the everything. If you don't have the perfect dress, your perfect date, then it won't be as fun. If you just settle with an all right dress, and someone you don't really enjoy being around, then it's not going to be a fun time.

I think prom is a little overrated. It's not all what it's made up to be. For some people, it's one of those nights that they'll never forget in their high school career, but there are some who don't really care for it. I think it's also crazy how people prepare for it. They tan until they look brown, and they spend way too much money on a dress they'll wear for a couple hours, and other things they really don't need. Although I think like that, those things are what make it fun. I don't blame them, because that's what makes them happy and that's what makes prom so much fun for them, and I think whatever makes them happy is what they should do.

Facebook

I think Facebook and any other social networking sites, have two sides to it. There are many problems with Facebook because of all the fakes and the drama seekers. Yet there are people out there who are involved for the right reasons. They want to be social with their friends and family, and not use it as a diary to tell every person that has a Facebook account what's wrong with their lives. For teens, it seems like all the want to do is add, add, add people and post as many innapropriate things about their problems that are unnecesary to tell strangers on the internet. I'm not saying every teenager does that, because I know plenty who don't, but I know quite a few that I know and don't know that have this problem. They get as many other teens as they can, knowing them or not. I think the majority of who's using Facebook for the wrong reasons are teens and the younger people. I get friend requests from sixth graders, and I think that if they do have a Facebook, that their parents should be watching the account as well.

For the "further study", my mom has added me as a friend before. I told her why I wouldn't add her. I taught her all about Facebook, and how to run it. Then she decided to add her daughters. I told her straight up that I am a teen, I have teen friends, and I'm not responsible for what my friends say, tag, or post on my wall, because not all of it is true, and some is sarcasm that some may not get. Sometimes I dislike very much what some friends get me involved in, when I don't want to be. So, if my mom or other family members saw things some friends say, they would think badly of me, so I prefer not to have them on Facebook, so they won't get the wrong idea about who I am.

High School/ PSEO/ Life/ Friends

As some of you know, I am only a junior in high school. Now think back to your high school days... Did you have the time of your life being a teenager, being with all your friends, and in high school? Was there drama? Did you get caught up in it?

The reason why I am post secondary, is because of high school. I'm mature beyond my years, and dealing with, "What if Johnny takes Jess to prom, even though he's dating Deb, but she secretly wants to go with Andy?" I hear that, and a lot more everyday. I am the kind of person who just likes to relax and go with the flow with life. I don't want to ruin my life with trying to catch up in drama and possibly get in the middle of something.

Now that I'm part-time post secondary, I am at the school only half the time and I love it! I hear some things, but it's not as overwhelming as it used to be. It's sad being a seventeen year old and hating the high school life. I look forward to college and hoping for less drama and more accepting people.

I have one amazing best friend, and if it wasn't for her, I'd be trying my hardest being full-time PSEO. We are almost identical, it's creepy! I love her to death. We've been best friends since the 7th grade, and I hope we are for a long time. Lately, we will sit just talking and dreaming of our future. We daydream of a better place, and how college is going to go for us. We can't wait until we graduate and move on with our lives, without dealing with so much drama, and people with no self-respect. It's hard finding who your true friends are, but when you find them, it's an amazing feeling knowing that someone's there for you whenever you need them.